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HoH Domestic Discipline LTR m4w There are many keywords to describe what I am looking for but here is a list: DD (domestic discipline), HoH (Head of House), TiH (Taken in Hand), D/s, Daddy Dom, LTR, 1950s household.
I am looking for an intelligent lady who will be a mix of wife, submissive, little girl.
I have been heavily attracted to the domestic discipline type of lifestyle, with aspects of D/s as well. Where the man is in charge of the household and my girl will have a set of rules and guild lines to live her life by in every day life. In the context of a loving relationship where peace and harmony is the norm, and me as a harsh disciplinarian when needed. She will know her place in the relationship and while I will acknowledge her opinions, thoughts, and concerns I will have the final say. If she breaks these rules or forgets her place, her behavior will be corrected with discipline appropriate for a girl (spanking, mouth soaping, lectures, writing lines, grounding, corner time, etc ). Her position in the household will also be confirmed with other bdsm play to remind her of her place and because I enjoy it.
I want my girl to be intelligent, caring, loyal, funny, and of course obedient. Someone I can share ALL aspects of life with. When we go out together we would appear as a very close professional couple, but she would secretly know her place. If she starts getting out of hand or stops being respectful, a simple on the back or a glance would remind her and foreshadow what might be in store for her later that night if she continues. When we are behind closed doors, she will play the role of a submissive girlfriend/wife.
About me: I am a 37 year old Dom, with many years of experience in various types of play and a appetite for new experiences. I am intelligent, strict, caring, grounded, good job, fisy stable. I have my life in order but still searching for the right one. If the above type of lifestyle interests you msg me as I would like to talk further with you.
While I would prefer someone local for obvious reasons, I am willing to start a long distance relationship with the right person although I would not want it to drag on without fairly frequent meetings.
I am also available as a mentor disciplinarian. As I enjoy helping people reach their goals via encouragement and corporal punishment.