Lady wants online dating

Good Friend(s) Needed I would have said best friend wanted, but that is taken by my wonderful wife! I need some friends, but one good one would be nice. First off, my wife and family come first. But I have been missing friends since I moved 11 years ago. I usually get along with women better when it comes to conversing, which is why I have chosen a woman friend instead of a man. So... First of all you have to be ok with me being married. Our relationship is truly unique as we tell each other all things. We have had our moments as couples do and we have reached a point where we are both comfortable with each other having friends of the opposite sex. My wife has a few male friends she chats with, where I have no female friends. It must be that women think about the wives' feelings more. I don't think men care if a woman has a man or not. Personality traits that seem to go well with mine: Fun! Love to laugh and have a good time. Must enjoy life and what it has to offer. Have a positive ! No one likes to be around someone that is depressing! ACTIVE! Someone who enjoys getting out and doing things as time permits. Sarcastic? I know, but since I am as well, it works better that way. Can on a conversation more than about their friends and family's situations. Politics, , sex, anything and everything! Honest! Be true to yourself and others! No reason to put on a show! If people don't like you for who you are, move on and don't waste your time! Down to Earth! Someone who doesn't judge, who is open to learning and experiencing new things! No drama! I have a tendency to rid my life of anything that makes my life harder. If you do , I don't care, just not around my . And even this is strictly about friendship, she should not look like death warmed over! A little harmless flirtation is nice, but not a deal breaker. And must take care of yourself! No one wants to gag when you lean in for a hug! Age doesn't matter as it is all about personality and chemistry to a point. And are not requested, but send if you want to and I will as well. It is nice to know who you are talking to. So a little about me: I'm 37, married, 3 (12,10,8). Love my family! Had crappy run of jobs over the years which wouldn't let me socialize with others because of weird work swingers sex in decatur city iowa schedules. I enjoy most sports, I was brought up , currently agnostic. I smoke, am a few pounds overweight, would like to shed the weight but haven't had the motivation to stick with a workout program. I drink on occasion. Most times beer cuz it's cheaper, but my drink of choice is vodka with lime juice, no lime. I have an addiction to video , which I'm aware of and trying to break. What is it that I'm looking for out of this friendship? Someone to , text, chat on phone, hang out with, a drink or bite to eat. If you have maybe even the can play together while we relax and chat. If by chance you need a good friend as well, and my lengthy ad seems interesting to you, send me an with a topic you think might spark up a conversation! Kik as well. RoughandRugged. Hoping to hear from you soon.